{"id":4961,"date":"2022-03-10T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2022-03-10T08:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/CAIiELKklnB9R7QFp-7wIYRbvcQqFwgEKg8IACoHCAowjuuKAzCWrzwwhoEY"},"modified":"2022-03-10T08:00:00","modified_gmt":"2022-03-10T08:00:00","slug":"nelson-w-aldrich-jr-86-dissector-of-old-money-dies-the-new-york-times","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thcinct.com\/?p=4961","title":{"rendered":"Nelson W. Aldrich Jr., 86, Dissector of Old Money, Dies &#8211; The New York Times"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static01.nyt.com\/images\/2022\/03\/11\/obituaries\/08Aldrich1-sub-print1\/08Aldrich1-sub-facebookJumbo.jpg\" class=\"ff-og-image-inserted\"><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">Nelson W. Aldrich Jr., an author and magazine editor who unsparingly scrutinized his fellow heirs to America\u2019s aristocracy, primarily in \u201cOld Money: The Mythology of Wealth in America,\u201d which one reviewer called \u201ca self-help book for those who have too much,\u201d died on Tuesday at his home in North Stonington, in southeastern Connecticut. He was 86.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">The cause was complications of Parkinson\u2019s disease, his daughter Liberty Aldrich said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">Mr. Aldrich also edited \u201cGeorge, Being George\u201d (2008), an oral history that lionized <a class=\"css-1g7m0tk\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2003\/09\/27\/arts\/george-plimpton-author-and-editor-is-dead-at-76.html\" title>George Plimpton<\/a>, a fellow patrician and literary journalist, and he wrote \u201cTommy Hitchcock: An American Hero\u201d (1985), a biography of the famed polo player.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">Mr. Aldrich \u201cwas driven by a need to understand, uncover, and explain to others the class he was born into; being a writer gave him the opportunity to do that,\u201d Ms. Aldrich said in an email.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">He did that most prominently and self-reflectively in \u201cOld Money\u201d (1988) and in a January 1979 cover story for The Atlantic magazine headlined \u201cPreppies: The Last Upper Class?\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"><\/aside>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">While the article parodied prep school students, it also described a \u201cPreppie ideal\u201d as \u201ca collective yearning; with respect to money, it is a yearning for a triumph \u2014 of class over income, of grace over works, of being over doing.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">\u201cGracefulness is less a gift than a standard,\u201d Mr. Aldrich wrote, \u201csomething to measure up to, a performance.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">He went on: \u201cThe delight of the thing comes from the knowledge that it\u2019s all contrived, that the effect of effortlessness requires a good deal of strain, that negligence requires attention, that indifference requires concentration, that simplicity and naturalness require affectation. The most delicious \u2018in\u2019 joke of Preppiedom is the anxiety everyone feels about being carefree.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\"><a class=\"css-1g7m0tk\" href=\"https:\/\/www.latimes.com\/archives\/la-xpm-1988-07-03-bk-8943-story.html\" title rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Reviewing the book<\/a> in The Los Angeles Times, the author Adam Hochschild wrote, \u201cAldrich\u2019s voice is that of someone in a comfortable leather armchair, telling a story during a long evening over brandy and cigars at an elegant New York or Boston club \u2014 a men\u2019s club, definitely.\u201d He called the book \u201cas thoughtful a psychological portrait of America\u2019s aristocracy as we have.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">In <a class=\"css-1g7m0tk\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/1988\/07\/31\/books\/even-brahmins-get-the-blues.html\" title>The New York Times Book Review<\/a>, it was Jane O\u2019Reilly who called \u201cOld Money\u201d a \u201cself-help book for those who have too much,\u201d adding that wealthy people would be delighted \u201cto discover that someone, one of their own, has defined both the essence and the existential quandary of being Old Money.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"><\/aside>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">Mr. Aldrich wrote insightfully about the drawbacks of too much freedom, as personified by the lament of a member of a self-help group for beneficiaries of inherited fortunes called the Dough Nuts, who complained, \u201cSometimes I feel as if everything I\u2019ve done in my life has been a hobby.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"css-79elbk\" data-testid=\"photoviewer-wrapper\">\n<div data-testid=\"photoviewer-children\" class=\"css-1a48zt4 e11si9ry5\">\n<figure class=\"img-sz-small css-1m53jiu e1g7ppur0\" aria-label=\"media\" role=\"group\"><figcaption class=\"css-1e7005o ewdxa0s0\"><span aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"css-16f3y1r e13ogyst0\">Mr. Aldrich edited \u201cGeorge, Being George\u201d (2008), an oral history that lionized George Plimpton, a fellow patrician and literary journalist.<\/span><span class=\"css-cnj6d5 e1z0qqy90\"><span class=\"css-1ly73wi e1tej78p0\">Credit&#8230;<\/span><span>The New York Times<\/span><\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">Nelson Wilmarth Aldrich Jr. was born on April 11, 1935, in Boston. His father was an architect and chairman of the Institute of Contemporary Art in Boston. His mother was Eleanor (Tweed) Aldrich.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">\u201cI was entitled to a IV rather than a Jr.,\u201d Mr. Aldrich wrote in \u201cOld Money,\u201d but \u201cI was persuaded that Roman numerals were pretentious.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">He dedicated the book to, among others, his great-grandfather Nelson W. Aldrich who after 30 years in politics \u2014 he was a Republican United States Senator from Rhode Island \u2014 turned a modest profit from his wholesale grocery business into a $12 million fortune thanks to good investment advice and favors from friendly robber barons.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">Senator Aldrich, who was said to have become a millionaire shepherding legislation for those corporate titans, was considered the father of the direct federal income tax and the Federal Reserve System. His daughter Abigail married John D. Rockefeller Jr., the only son of the founder of Standard Oil. Nelson Aldrich Rockefeller, the former governor of New York and former vice president, was a cousin.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">After attending the exclusive St. Paul\u2019s School in New Hampshire and graduating from Harvard with a degree in American history and literature in 1957, Nelson Jr. held a series of jobs: reporter for The Boston Globe, New York City public-school teacher, Paris editor of The Paris Review, senior editor at Harper\u2019s Magazine and editor in chief of Civilization, the Library of Congress magazine.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"><\/aside>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">He also taught at Long Island University and City College of the City University of New York.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">In addition to his daughter Liberty, from his marriage to Anna Lou Humes, which ended in divorce, Mr. Aldrich is survived by Ms. Humes\u2019s daughter, Alexandra, whom he adopted; his wife, Denise (Lovatt) Aldrich; their daughter, Arabella; a son, Alexander Goldsmith, from his relationship with a partner, Gillian Pretty Goldsmith; four stepchildren, Alison Humes, Mavis Humes Baird, Immy Humes and Tom Martin; and five grandchildren.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">For all his parodies of denizens of the upper classes, Mr. Aldrich was not above being lampooned himself. With His Crowd mourning the <a class=\"css-1g7m0tk\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2011\/05\/27\/nyregion\/elaines-restaurant-jammed-on-its-closing-night.html\" title>demise of the restaurant Elaine\u2019s<\/a> on Manhattan\u2019s Upper East Side in 2011 \u2014 another class-conscious sanctuary \u2014 the poet Frederick Seidel, one of Mr. Aldrich\u2019s former Harvard classmates, wrote:<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\"><em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\">Aldrich once protested to Elaine that his bill for the night was too high.<\/em><br \/><em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\">She showed him his tab was for seventeen Scotches and he started to cry.<\/em><br \/><em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\">(Or was it eighteen?)<\/em><br \/><em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\">We were the scene.<\/em><br \/><em class=\"css-2fg4z9 e1gzwzxm0\">Now the floor has been swept clean.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"><\/aside>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nelson W. Aldrich Jr., an author and magazine editor who unsparingly scrutinized his fellow heirs to America\u2019s aristocracy, primarily in \u201cOld Money: The Mythology of Wealth in America,\u201d which one reviewer called \u201ca self-help book for those who have too much,\u201d died on Tuesday at his home in North Stonington, in southeastern Connecticut. He was 86. The cause was complications of Parkinson\u2019s disease, his daughter Liberty Aldrich said. Mr. Aldrich also edited \u201cGeorge, Being George\u201d (2008), an oral history that lionized George Plimpton, a fellow patrician and literary journalist, and he wrote \u201cTommy Hitchcock: An American Hero\u201d (1985), a biography&#8230; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"fifu_image_url":"","fifu_image_alt":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4961","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-connecticut-cbd-news"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thcinct.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4961","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thcinct.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thcinct.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thcinct.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thcinct.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4961"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/thcinct.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4961\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thcinct.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4961"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thcinct.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4961"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thcinct.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4961"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}